I went back to school and earned my Master's degree in Counseling and thought, well that should be less intimidating to folks. That wasn't why I went into counseling but having gone to some social functions and still getting the walk away after saying I'm an engineer, I figured I'd try saying I was a counselor instead. I have a new career I can use that people won't walk away from me. However, what happened was one of two things. I either got people now telling me all their problems and wanting a free counseling session or I'd get the exact same response as when I told folks I was an engineer. That puzzled me until I realized that they thought I was probably psychoanalyzing them which of course I wasn't. Strike 2 on having a career that was a good conversation starter.
Then I got alpacas. Not long after I got my first alpacas, I was invited to a rather large social event for some dear friends. They were having a formal dinner party at a hotel to celebrate their anniversary. We had assigned seating and the table I was at, I slightly new one couple but the rest of the table were people I had never met before. I saw that and my heart sunk a bit as it felt like it could be a long night of me sitting there working very hard to have conversation with strangers. I really stink at chit chat. It wasn't long after we were all seated, the dreaded question came up of what I did for a living. I wasn't doing engineering anymore and I wasn't counseling either. Well, they couldn't get up and walk away so I said I breed alpacas. I got some laughs and exclamations of, "Really!" Then came one question after another. They were so interested and intrigued by it all. I answered all the questions and shared fun anecdotes. Our table laughed more and we all had the best time. I later found out that many shared with our hosts days following the party how much they enjoyed our table and were so entertained by the alpaca stories.
Having alpacas has definitely made it so much easier to strike up conversations with people. Moving to Oregon has helped too since it is such a friendly state. You go into a store and wait in line and people talk to you. Thanks to alpacas, I'm finally getting a little better at that skill of that introductory conversation. It is another alpaca oxymoron that such a shy and skittish animal makes the best ice breaker!
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